{"id":8433,"date":"2020-08-13T20:47:18","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:47:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/?p=8433"},"modified":"2026-07-24T21:45:28","modified_gmt":"2026-07-24T21:45:28","slug":"why-some-people-quit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/?p=8433","title":{"rendered":"Why Some People Quit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Views: 2<\/p><p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\">[<strong>Note<\/strong><strong>:\u00a0 <\/strong>This MS is available in larger font on our <strong>Brief Articles 3<\/strong>\u00a0 page.]<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\">Ever since the church began, some who obeyed the Gospel, thus being added by the Lord to the church, have failed to remain faithful (1 Cor. 15:58; 16:13;\u00a0 Gal. 6:9; Heb. 10:23\u201325; Rev. 2:10; et al.). Doubtless, some causes exist with which I\u2019m not familiar, but I\u2019ve heard several in the years I\u2019ve been preaching the Gospel. Perhaps these I cite below will prevent some from dropping out, (or even cause some who have dropped out to return). I now mention some of the bases I have observed.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\">When one knows he is not living as Christ teaches us to live during the week, he <strong>should<\/strong> feel guilty and ashamed when he comes into his Bible class or into the worship assembly. His guilt and shame leave him with two choices: He can confess and repent of his sin, or he can continue in his guilt. One who continues in sin will not long remain faithful in attendance where his sin is going to be preached and taught against. Such a person will feel increasingly out of place and will eventually quit. Of course, \u201cquitting the church\u201d does not remove the guilt; it only removes one of the constant reminders of it. Many take this route.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\"><strong>Personality dislike for someone(s) in the congregation. <\/strong>It may be the preacher, an elder, a teacher\u2014it is often someone in a leadership role. We all have enough quirks to be unlikable to someone else (e.g., I don\u2019t like the behavior of those who quit because they don\u2019t like someone). Guess what? You don\u2019t have to <strong>like <\/strong>every member of the church to be a faithful Christian. God dislikes even the best of us, but He still <strong>loves <\/strong>us and seeks the best for us. Likewise, we can dislike and irritate one another at times, as long as we still love one another enough to seek the good of each other. \u201cQuitting the church,\u201d thus losing one\u2019s soul, is a high price to pay because \u201cI don\u2019t like someone.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\"><strong>There are hypocrites in the church. <\/strong>I suppose all Christians (including preachers and elders) have been hypocrites (at least, inconsistent) at times. Even the best find it impossible to always live up to the message they preach, and sometimes they fail. The one who charges, \u201cThere are too many hypocrites,\u201d is doubtless himself hypocritical once in a while. I don\u2019t defend hypocrisy, but which is worse, to continue to faithfully assemble and work with other imperfect saints, knowing that one\u2019s own life is not perfect, or to drop out and not even make an effort to be faithful? Besides, the presence of one or a hundred hypocrites has nothing to do with my relationship to God unless I let it. Do we come to the assembly to judge our brethren or to worship God?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\">Many other \u201creasons\u201d for quitting are observable, but they all stem from letting selfish pride or other sins get out of hand. When selfishness drops out, the quitter will drop back in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\">[<strong>Note:<\/strong> I wrote this article for and it was published in <em>The Lighthouse, <\/em>weekly bulletin of Northpoint Church of Christ, Denton, TX, February 20, 2011, of which I was editor.]<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\"><strong>Attribution:<\/strong> From <em>www.thescripturecache.com<\/em>; Dub McClish, proprietor, curator, and administrator.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'book antiqua', palatino, serif;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Views: 2[Note:\u00a0 This MS is available in larger font on our Brief Articles 3\u00a0 page.] Ever since the church began, some who obeyed the Gospel, thus being added by the Lord to the church, have failed to remain faithful (1 Cor. 15:58; 16:13;\u00a0 Gal. 6:9;&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"easywp-readmore\"><a class=\"read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/?p=8433\">Continue Reading&#8230;<span class=\"easywp-sr-only\">  Why Some People Quit<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[350,352,35,36,206,563,214,102,10,492,456,334],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8433","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-attendance","category-attitude","category-elders","category-faith","category-faithfulness","category-guilt","category-hypocrisy","category-love","category-preachers","category-teachers","category-work","category-worship-2","wpcat-350-id","wpcat-352-id","wpcat-35-id","wpcat-36-id","wpcat-206-id","wpcat-563-id","wpcat-214-id","wpcat-102-id","wpcat-10-id","wpcat-492-id","wpcat-456-id","wpcat-334-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8433","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8433"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8433\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24385,"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8433\/revisions\/24385"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8433"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8433"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thescripturecache.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8433"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}