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[Note:\u00a0 <\/strong>This MS is available in larger font on our Longer Articles<\/strong>\u00a0 page.]<\/span><\/p>\n Introduction<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n And there came unto him Pharisees, trying him, and saying, Is it lawful <\/strong>for a man<\/em><\/strong> to put away his wife for every cause?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n And he answered and said, <\/strong>Have ye not read, that he who made <\/strong>them<\/em><\/strong> from the beginning <\/strong>made them male and female,<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n and said, <\/strong>For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n They say unto him, Why then did Moses command to <\/strong>give a bill of divorcement, and to put <\/strong><\/em>her<\/em><\/strong> away<\/strong><\/em>?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n He saith unto them, <\/strong>Moses for your hardness of heart suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it hath not been so.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and he that marrieth her when she is put away committeth adultery.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n The disciples say unto him, If the case of the man is so with his wife, it is not expedient to marry.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n But he said unto them, <\/strong>Not all men can receive this saying, but they to whom it is given.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n For there are eunuchs, that were so born from their mother’s womb: and there are eunuchs, that were made eunuchs by men: and there are eunuchs, that made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.<\/strong><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n For several years an average of fifty percent of the couples in our nation who say, \u201cI do\u201d have later said, \u201cI don\u2019t.\u201d In some states the ratio has been much higher. Until about the 1960s, divorce was almost universally stigmatized, and it was difficult to obtain apart from the cause of adultery. Then the social engineers did their work. Legislators began to liberalize divorce laws, which have steadily discouraged lifelong marriage commitment. \u201cNo fault\u201d divorce is now almost universal. The \u201cWomen\u2019s Liberation\u201d movement of the 1970s strongly contributed to negativism toward the Biblical concept of marriage and the home. These developments have so cheapened marriage that (surprise!) millions of couples now shamelessly cohabit and breed, no more bothering to marry than brute beasts. The Lord\u2019s body has increasingly felt the effects of the societal marriage-family revolution (though the opposite should be true [Mat. 5:13\u201316]).<\/span><\/p>\n In Matthew 19:3\u201312 Jesus summarized God\u2019s perfect will for the marriage relationship and that alone which in His perfect will dissolves it. As one reads this passage, he should note that the Lord speaks in literal, rather than figurative, terms. Further, Jesus states His doctrine in the form of obligatory legislation, not as mere optional advice. This context is the bedrock of Biblical teaching on the subject. If one fails to interpret all other New Testament passages on the subject in harmony with Jesus\u2019 words here his understanding of them is necessarily flawed.<\/span><\/p>\n Liberal Attitudes<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Tragically, instead of preaching and teaching the Truth on marriage, divorce, and remarriage, urging men and women to conform their lives thereto, some brethren have egregiously compromised with the world. They have taught and are teaching devilish, degenerate doctrines to excuse the violation of Divine law on this subject. They have devised perhaps two dozen clever (but corrupt) loopholes to Jesus\u2019 statement of Divine law in Matthew 9:3\u201312.<\/span><\/p>\n The guile-laden question of the Pharisees (they came \u201ctrying him\u201d) indicates their liberal attitude toward divorce and remarriage: \u201cIs it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?\u201d (v. 3). Were the Lord on earth today this question would be most appropriate because it reflects the prevailing current view (including that of not a few brethren), namely that divorce and remarriage are acceptable on almost any pretext. We need not wish Him here if to gain His answer to this question. The definitive answer He gave in A.D. 30 is the same one He would give now, for His objective Truth does not change from age to age, person to person, or circumstance to circumstance.<\/span><\/p>\n Universal Application<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n One of the contrivances seeks to limit the application of Jesus\u2019 doctrine to Christians. However, Jesus bases His teachings on God\u2019s law governing marriage from the beginning of man\u2019s existence (v. 4 [Gen. 1:27]; v. 5 [Gen. 2:24]). Obviously, God\u2019s statements in Genesis 1 and 2 predated by ages the distinction He later made between Jew and Gentile by giving the law through Moses. The assertion that Jesus\u2019 words applied only to the Jews (God\u2019s \u201ccovenant\u201d people then), and that they therefore apply only to Christians now (God\u2019s \u201ccovenant\u201d people today), is as absurd as it is baseless. The purpose of this quibble is to allow men and women to divorce and remarry without limit before <\/strong>they obey the Gospel and then remain <\/strong>with their last- married mate. However, the Lord manifestly emphasized Deity\u2019s all-time, universal, fundamental principle for marriage: one <\/strong>man, one <\/strong>woman, joined by God to become one <\/strong>flesh for life (not <\/strong>one man joined to one man or one woman joined to one woman, incidentally).<\/span><\/p>\n Jesus also indicated the universality of His teaching by applying it to \u201cwhosoever\u201d (Mat. 19:9). There is no justification for limiting whosoever <\/em>unless or to what extent the Lord Himself limits it (which He does, v. 12). Even then, any such limitation must be restricted solely to that which He sets. In His complementary statement (Mat. 5:31\u201332), Jesus used whosoever <\/em>twice and everyone <\/em>once to emphasize the universal application of His teaching.<\/span><\/p>\n Another forceful indication of the universality of Jesus\u2019 marriage doctrine in the context deserves more emphasis than it has received. The disciples obviously understood the import of Jesus\u2019 words and mildly complained at their harshness (v. 10). Jesus responded, \u201cNot all men can receive this saying, but they to whom it is given\u201d (v. 11). In other words, the whosoever <\/em>of verse 9 does have exceptions. The only <\/strong>ones Jesus excludes are eunuchs (those unable to consummate marriage)\u2014natural-born, man-made, or self-made for the kingdom\u2019s sake (v. 12). Note who are not <\/strong>excepted: Not Gentiles <\/strong>before the cross or non-Christians <\/strong>since the cross (i.e., \u201cnon-covenant\u201d people). The Lord\u2019s teaching thus applies to all others <\/strong>but eunuchs, and no one has the right to exclude any others<\/strong>. Whatever Jesus teaches in this passage applies to all human beings except eunuchs.<\/span><\/p>\n The Divine Rule Stated<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n The Lord answered a decisive \u201cNo\u201d to the Pharisees\u2019 question, \u201cIs it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?\u201d By lawful <\/em>they meant \u201cGod\u2019s law.\u201d Jesus stated that casual and careless divorce is a violation of God\u2019s law because it rejects:<\/span><\/p>\n Jesus left no doubt in the minds of the tricky Pharisees, nor should there be any in ours, about divorce and remarriage.<\/span><\/p>\n The Divine Exception Stated<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n The Pharisees\u2019 strategy was to place Jesus in conflict with Moses (or at least with one of the popular rabbinical interpreters of Moses), thereby discrediting Him with the multitude (vv. 7\u2013 8): \u201cYou say divorce is unlawful, but Moses commanded it. Whom should we follow?\u201d After identifying human rebellion (\u201chardness of heart\u201d) as the basis of Moses\u2019 concession to which they referred (Deu. 24:1\u20134), Jesus immediately took His stand upon God\u2019s law from the beginning, although it meant:<\/span><\/p>\n When we stand uncompromisingly upon the teaching of Christ on this issue we find ourselves in almost the identical relationship toward comparable contemporaries. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n The exception Jesus states in verse 9 involves two elements: (1) The conditional right to divorce and remarry and (2) the only Scriptural condition upon which God allows divorce and remarriage. The Pharisees likely had selfish excuses in mind for divorce and remarriage in their question (i.e., \u201cMay I divorce my wife and marry another if I grow tired of her or find someone I like better?\u201d). This spirit firmly grips our times and influences young people daily. The past two or three generations seem to have largely adopted the view that marriage is a meaningless throwaway contract: \u201cIf this marriage doesn\u2019t work out, I can always try again with someone else.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n By contrast, Jesus gives the only <\/strong>Divinely authorized exception to lifetime marriage: fornication in one\u2019s spouse. Fornication <\/em>translates the Greek word porneia<\/em>, the \u201cumbrella\u201d Greek term for every sort of sexual impurity, including harlotry, homosexuality (both male and female), bestiality, and adultery. Divorcing one\u2019s mate for such behavior would most likely be for a basically unselfish <\/strong>reason\u2014not in order to take up with a new mate, but to protect one\u2019s own person and home from the corrupting influence of immorality. Christ does not command <\/strong>divorce or remarriage in such cases. However, He allows <\/strong>both divorce and remarriage of the innocent mate, or His words mean nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n Some Attempts to Avoid the Consequence<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n One who divorces one\u2019s mate and remarries for any cause besides the mate\u2019s fornication (assuming the two were Scripturally married originally) commits adultery (v. 9b). Does the guilty mate have the same Scriptural right as the innocent to remarry once fornication has occurred? If so, this is the only sin one can commit to one\u2019s own benefit. Again, if so, why did the Lord even bother to discuss the matter? <\/strong>His words actually imply a strong prohibition of remarriage for the fornicating spouse.<\/span><\/p>\n Some would mitigate the sin of adultery by defining adultery <\/em>to mean merely breaking the marriage contract. They then argue that one can divorce and remarry if one \u201crepents\u201d of the \u201cadultery\u201d by simply saying, \u201cI\u2019m sorry for breaking up our marriage.\u201d Those who introduced this absurdity should have been laughed to scorn. Instead, the pursuit of \u201cloopholes\u201d to circumvent the Lord\u2019s teaching has been so feverish that some have adopted it, seriously argued it, and even split churches over it. However, Greek lexicons universally attest that one cannot define the physical act of adultery apart from unlawful sexual intercourse.<\/span><\/p>\n Another common ploy is the assertion that the adultery in an unscriptural marriage is only a one-time act, rather than a continuing behavior. They then argue that couples in unscriptural marriages are not \u201cliving in adultery.\u201d Thus they allege that only their first act <\/strong>of copulation constitutes adultery, and that they can continue in the marriage as long as they \u201crepent\u201d of (i.e., say they are sorry for) that first act. This outlandish position reveals the desperation of some to avoid the force of Jesus\u2019 teaching. Its advocates conveniently reserve this idea of \u201cnon-continuous\u201d sin for adultery alone. However, Colossians 3:5\u20137 mentions \u201cfornication\u201d (which includes adultery) and other sins and then says that they had formerly \u201clived in these things.\u201d The adultery of Matthew 19:9 is committed just as often as one is intimate with one\u2019s forbidden mate. The only way to repent of an adulterous union is to sever it and cease the intimacy. When children are involved in these unions emotions are naturally stirred in sympathy for them. However, it is clear from Jesus\u2019 teaching that their presence does not alter His doctrine. Neither does the presence of children render the separation of unscripturally married partners \u201cintractable,\u201d as some have asserted. Rather, remaining in <\/strong>an adulterous, unscriptural marriage is, in light of the eternal consequences, the \u201cintractable\u201d situation.<\/span><\/p>\n Conclusion<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Brethren have invented many other far-fetched exceptions to Jesus\u2019 one exception. Not surprisingly, the self-indulgent, secular, biblically illiterate condition of so many church members has led to their wide acceptance. A preacher seriously suggested to me a few years ago that if we do not lower our standards on this subject, we will soon run out of people we can convert because so many are involved in \u201cadulterous marriages\u201d as defined by \u201cour traditional position.\u201d Such is unabashed situation ethics and doctrine. When two people are married (by civil law) who have no right to be married, it is Divine law, not \u201ctradition,\u201d that determines such a marriage to be \u201cadulterous.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Against all such compromises, Jesus\u2019 teaching is narrow, dogmatic, and unapologetic\u2014 and so must ours be. His doctrine is therefore as unpopular now as it was when He uttered it. We must stand with Him on this issue, as on all others, for to reject His Word is to reject Him (John 12:48). Hebrews 13:4 declares that God will judge fornicators and adulterers. Will His judgment be any less sore on those who have deceived fornicators and adulterers into believing that they are not such, thus allowing them to reach the Judgment lost because of their impurities?<\/span><\/p>\n [Note: <\/strong>I wrote this MS for and it originally appeared as an \u201cEditorial Perspective\u201d in the September 2001 issue of THE GOSPEL JOURNAL<\/em>, of which I was editor at the time.]<\/span><\/p>\n Attribution:<\/strong> From thescripturecache.com<\/em>; Dub McClish, owner and administrator.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Views: 3[Note:\u00a0 This MS is available in larger font on our Longer Articles\u00a0 page.] Introduction And there came unto him Pharisees, trying him, and saying, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause? And he answered and said, Have…<\/p>\n\n
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