The Church and Its Widows—1 Timothy 5:3-16

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This passage has long been problematical. Perhaps the biggest problem revolves around what seems to be an arbitrary age limit governing widows who can be “enrolled” (vs. 9), and, as generally concluded, who can therefore be supported by the church.

The Ephesian church must have had a disproportionate number of widows, even as some present-day churches have more than others. There were “widows indeed” who were “desolate,” having no family. (vss. 3,5, l6b.) There were widows who had children or grandchildren who could care for them. (vss. 4, 8, 16a.) There were some “widows indeed” who lived in “pleasure.” (vs. 6.) Some widows were sixty years old and older and some were “younger.” (vss. 9, 11, 14.) That fourteen verses of text (about 12% of the epistle) are given to detailed instruction concerning the treatment of widows further indicates that this was a peculiar problem in Ephesus.

The opening statement, “Honor widows that are widows indeed,” is the main subject of the section. “Honor” is from timao, which means either payment of respect or of money due, or both. The context clearly indicates more than mere respect is meant. (cf. vss. 4, 8, 16.) “Widows indeed” are to be supported. “Indeed” is the present participle ontos, denoting something that really or actually is. Verse four indicates that some who are widows factually (their husbands are dead) are not really widows practically (because they have kindred to supply their needs). The first responsibility of support of the widow rests upon her physical family, the discharge of which pleases God. (vss. 4, 8.)

The “widow indeed,” however, is “desolate” (vs. 5) of any kindred to support her. Such a widow was in truly dire circumstances until relatively modern times. There was no public welfare or Social Security. Honorable female employment for gain was all but non-existent; hence, the need for these detailed instructions regarding both the family and the church responsibilities to widows. The godly “widow indeed” had her hope set on God. (vs. 5.) The perfect tense is here employed, indicating past completed action with present results; a long-standing mode of life. Because of this hope she prays, beseeching God for her needs. This is apparently a moral eulogy designed to commend such a desolate creature to the church’s support.                    

Not all desolate widows were so God-centered. Some gave themselves to pleasure, rendering themselves spiritually dead. (vs. 6.) The sense of “pleasure” seems to be more of luxury than of immorality. It appears that there were some widows in Ephesus who, although bereft of family, were somehow able to live luxuriously. They were certainly exceptional cases. Such had not their trust in God, nor were they actually desolate. On both counts they were ineligible for church support.

The directions beginning in verse seven, if followed, would preserve the whole church, but especially the Ephesian widows, from reproach in these matters. In verse nine we are introduced to the “enrolled” widows. “Enrolled” is from a military term referring to names set down in a register. Some have identified this enrollment with a supposed class of “deaconesses” in the early church, paralleling it with Romans 16:1 and 1 Timothy 3:11. Such an identity is highly suspect in this writer’s judgment. If there had been an official class of deaconesses and if 1 Timothy 3:11 and 5:9-10 are referring to such, why does not the word “deaconess” appear in either passage? Further, aside from the question of deaconesses, the numerous dissimilarities between the women described in 1 Timothy 3:11 and 5:9-10 argues against a specific identification even between these passages. The enrolled widows seem to be a phenomenon peculiar to Ephesus since there is no mention of such an arrangement elsewhere.

An imposing history of good works is required, as well as a minimum age of sixty years, to qualify for the enrollment. Younger (than sixty) widows are prohibited from enrollment. Generally, the reason given is that they would not be able to live up to the demands of the enrollment. Because of their relative youth, their minds would more likely be distracted from their work to other things such as marriage and its attendant responsibilities. Paul is not teaching that marriage is incompatible with Christianity, but with the duties of enrollees. Later (vs. 14) he urges the “younger widows” to marry. Neither is Paul teaching that an enrollee who marries incurs condemnation of God (vs. 12). The word krima (“condemnation”) is used in reference to the judgment men pass on each other, as well as God’s judgment. (cf. Thayer, p. 360.) The “first pledge” apparently refers to a vow, perhaps to serve the church without distraction for the remainder of life, a widow was required to make upon being enrolled. Whatever the case, it would mean turning aside from a prior commitment for an enrollee to marry, bringing a degree of criticism upon such a one. Moreover, the less mature widows would be more likely to become idle busybodies than those over sixty. It would therefore be best for the younger widows to marry, involving themselves in responsibilities of the home which would not leave them sufficient time to become gadabouts. Some younger widows had been enrolled and had already fallen prey to the vices mentioned in verse thirteen.

Verse sixteen is a summary statement for the section. Again, it places the relief responsibility for widows first on the physical family, then on the spiritual. But are the widows who can be supported and the enrolled widows identical? Does Paul teach that one who is 59 years old and desolate cannot be relieved by the church until another birthday, which she might not reach because of starvation? Consider the following: 1) “Widows indeed” are to be honored (supported) by the church if they have no kindred to care for them. (vss. 3, 4, 16.) Those eligible for this support are qualified by being “desolate, hoping in God, praying continually.” (vs.5.) 2) The “enrolled widows” have nothing said concerning qualifications for support; their qualifications relate to the work and service of the enrollment. (vss. 9-10.) Notice that one had to be a “widow indeed” to be supported by the church, but one did not have to be a “widow indeed” to be enrolled.

This author views verses nine through fifteen as supplemental to the main thrust of the section contained in verses three through eight and verse sixteen. In this author’s opinion, it Is an assumed conclusion, not warranted by the context, that the Ephesian church supported only the enrolled widows of sixty years or older. Some who were enrolled may have been, and likely were, supported by the church, but the support was not limited to those who qualified for enrollment. The church was to support those who were “widows indeed, and desolate,” etc. (vs. 5), regardless of age, this writer concludes.

[Note: I wrote this article for and it was published in the March or April, 1973, issue of Words of Truth, Gus Nichols, editor.]

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